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The difficulties...

 the questions

Seek, tirelessly cultivate love and equity.
But know that you will only find them in Heaven.
Earth is a place of revelation for the soul.



What did I do to God to deserve this?

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Life's setbacks  
Do these difficulties make sense?
Bypass the difficulties?
The role of joys and sorrows
How to build yourself without obstacles?
The help from heaven
Surpassing yourself
Do not give in to discouragement

These confusing contingencies

_ _

Failures, shocks, unfairness

The humiliations  
An ordeal for the soul
but an ordeal like any other
Beware of hasty interpretations

Laugh at yourself

_ _

The "Consolations"  
The Way and the Weight
Easy prey
The alcohol
A smoker under the influence
The danger of certain music
The drug

 ☞ 
But how to continue living??

(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)

_ _

Help and protection from Heaven  
An essential chain
The role of our guardian angels
 ☞ A thankless task
Solicit them
The scope of their help
Notice their help
Why don't they intervene more often?

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations | which ones to follow?  
Consult our conscience, our feelings
The first hunch
Elevate your spirit
And discern the intuitions
Write down inspirations and your questions
Unconscious influences
Ask a question
...remain cautious

Ask for help  
What does prayer consist of?
When and how to pray?
The power of prayer
Interfere with Fate

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☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

_ _

The hope

The earth is a plane of purification. You know that.
So don't let your mind wander, sigh, regret...

 What did I do to God to deserve this?


I AM the Way and you do not follow Me.

I AM the Truth and you don't believe Me.

I AM the Life and you are not looking for Me.

If you are unhappy, do not blame Me.

All of life and its share of suffering has meaning

 « Faced with difficulties, we exclaim: "What did I do to God to deserve this?". Tell yourself instead: "If I chose to live this experience☆ Excerpt from the page: "Why life" :

 « Do not flee the Earth and what it imposes on you. When you were born, you entered into a real contract with this other you that you do not suspect. »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Terre d'émeraude')📗

 « We all wanted to come here, and we chose our own destiny. Everyone has what they need. We knew the physiognomy we would possess. All of this we wanted and needed. »
[Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"]

 « We choose our parents, our husbands and our children who will be necessary for us to progress before being born. All the important people in our life, we have chosen them before according to their qualities which will be necessary for our growth. »

[ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

following...
before I was born, there must be a reason. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 « We must understand that our lives have a purpose. When something happens in your life, you must have the reflex to ask yourself about the meaning of this event. You have to ask yourself: Why is this happening to me? »
(Message collected by Daniel Robin, 'Death and beyond')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Daniel Robin on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH

 We must seek to understand why we suffer, because

 « Behind every painful ordeal, there is always a spiritual reason.
[ Alain Joseph Bellet (medium) ]

 « Suffering, like happiness, depends on our interpretation of events. Too often, we see ourselves as victims of the vagaries of existence. But if we consider that we ourselves have written the events that happen in our lives, without trying to label them as good, bad, fair, or unfair, a completely different perspective on life opens up to us. Thus, when a misfortune strikes us, rather than saying to yourself: “ I knew it, life is hard for me  ”, it is appropriate to ask yourself: “ What use is this suffering and this event to me? What does life expect of me? Why did I choose to live this experience? »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 « Never lament a misfortune that befalls you,
it's always an opportunity to build yourself up. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

Faced with an inextricable situation, the mental panics.
Only Knowledge, which elevates the spirit, makes it possible to realize that it is only an ordeal; which is neither the result of bad luck nor celestial relentlessness.

Most often, it is our guardian angels (Cf. chapter "Help and protection from Heaven" below ) themselves who have placed it in our path. To wake us up, push us to surpass ourselves, or guide us.

 « I have to admit that whatever happens will be good. I have to practice the faith I have in God! »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

  Existence is a weight.
  For the one who does not stray, the weight becomes a wing
☆ Worries weigh down our lives, but if we accept them,
these same worries elevate us.
.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « It is not in comfort that the soul evolves☆

What does it mean to evolve?

The bird’s reason for being is to fly.
Man’s reason for being is to elevate his soul;
by collecting, by reflecting the Love of the Universe.
To withdraw into what you accumulate is the complete opposite.

The realization of our being

 « The purpose of our life during our passage on Earth, then after our death, in the various worlds of the beyond, is an increasingly complete realization of our being. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

« Every soul must become aware of itself little by little.

 In evolution, the mineral becomes plant, the plant becomes animal and the animal will become human. This is the great chain of life. »
(Hélène Bouvier, medium, "Mission of souls in the afterlife")

 « The important thing for you is to evolve in order to modify your vibrational state.
 The Earth is a domain that allows the soul to modify its vibrations through more or less difficult life experiences. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')

continued...
, but in hardship. We assure you, the impossible is not demanded of anyone. If you encounter a difficulty, a problem, you are able to solve it. Otherwise, ask for help, it will be granted to you, when you have exhausted your resources. Only the blind and the deaf smash against "fate". »
[ "To those who seek" ]

When I am at an impasse:
 > I do what I can to get out of it (while respecting my values)
 > I keep an unwavering trust in God
 > I consider that failure would be another form of test

The difficulties

 ☞ Daily life

 ☞ In the home

 ☞ With a colleague, a neighbor

 ☞ When everything is collapsing around us

 ☞ Why is life so cruel to me?

Bad luck or crucial step?

A Religious Mother explains the vow of obedience to novices:

 « What a joy to have a community grouped around its superior, where each sister willingly obeys the orders given for the common good...
 But there it is, This idyllic picture doesn't always come true. One such sister thinks of her own good before that of others and disturbs the peace. One such superior, being too authoritarian, gives orders that are contrary to reason or makes a sister she dislikes suffer. In these moments, obedience becomes a yoke, very hard.
It is then the hour of the greatest love... will you be able to carry your cross? So many beings around the world are forced to submit to intolerable situations. After this ordeal, which could be terrible, you will become a universal sister, liberated from yourself, capable of understanding and, therefore, of helping human distress. »

 Obedience shattered the hard, intractable part of me (sister Emmanuelle confesses in her posthumous book that her rebellious side has always been a big problem for her). She taught me that the "greatest love" requires, as Pascal says, "total and sweet renunciation". To achieve this, I will one day pass through the fire.
('Sister Emmanuelle's Farewell')📗 magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Sister Emmanuelle on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH


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What did I do to God to deserve this?

Life's setbacks

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

_ _

The humiliations  

but an ordeal like any other

_ _

The "consolations"
(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)
 

_ _

Help and protection from Heaven  

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations ...which ones to follow?  

Ask for help  

_ _

☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

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The hope

To find your way, the blind man seeks obstacles, not the void.

Life's setbacks

Do these difficulties make sense?
Bypass the difficulties?
The role of joys and sorrows
How to build yourself without obstacles?
The help from heaven
Surpassing yourself
Do not give in to discouragement

   A little love and friendship

     (Gilbert Becaud)

   

You who are alone and who ask
A little love and friendship
A little warmth for your soul
For you alone I want to sing
See more...
The transistor will be an accomplice
Of a secret between you and me
And on the airwaves I slip in to bring you a little joy.
You in your boat on the sea
You in your distant village
You have an insurmountable problem?
Here, put it there, on the table
Let it go, let it go
And time and time and time and time and time
Will fix it for you
Okay, okay ... fine
I don't want you to regret
The suns you missed
I promise you nights of celebration
Ah, but these ones, you can't miss them.
And you, your room is like an island
Where you must have often cried
Around you is the city -
Take your coat, we're going to drink
To the sailors on the sea
To the guys from the distant village
To all their insurmountable problems
Here, put them on the table
Let it die, let it die
And time and time and time and time and time
Will fix them for us
Okay, okay... fine
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It is on Earth that the soul shows its face.

 "Every moulting is suffering.» Saint-Exupery

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In turmoil, ask for help from the spiritual forces that surround you benevolently (Cf. chapter below"Help and Protection from Heaven" ) and who are only waiting for this authorization to guide you.
When you suffer, everything is painful, even breathing. But that makes us more sensitive, therefore more permeable to receive their inspirations. So be mindful and confident.
In the meantime, bow your back to the gusts
☆

 « A boat that fights the storm breaks more easily than one that folds its sails and lets itself be tossed about by the waves. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]
and beware of decisions prompted by anger or pride.
If no help comes, the ordeal may be to watch our reactions as we wade around unaided in total darkness.
(Cf. the story of Job).

 Do these difficulties make sense?

Rub the scales of your soul with EVERY trial.

 « This morning I was saying to myself that society, with its injustices, its distractions, all the poisons it offers us, is a place of improvement. Becoming a saint in a monastery is less difficult. »
( Mother Teresa )

Torments, like bacteria, awaken and strengthen our defenses.

 « Nothing, not a pebble from the road
 that is ours,
 is there by chance. »

(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')

 « The present, everything that happens to us are nothing but opportunities to pass initiatory trials☆ Excerpt from the page: "Life, both a reality and an illusion" :

 « If you can't refuse to take a role in the play, comedy or drama of the world, at least understand that there is only a game there. The differences only exist on the trestles and the finished play, the actors will be stripped of the cast-offs in which they have shown themselves. »
(Oral teaching of the Tibetan master of Alexandra David-Néel)

 « Your life experiences, by sometimes placing you in a position of strength or of weakness, making you play several roles, lead you to ask yourself about the attitude to have in many situations. »
[message received by Alain Joseph Bellet (medium)]
 ; to free ourselves from the inner tensions that we have amassed within us through our thoughts, words and actions and which have become the primary causes of our destiny. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

  There is no abyss so dark,
  no bewilderment so crooked
  that is not PATH.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « A Master expresses his gratitude in the face of difficulty because he knows that all experience brings about the growth of the Self☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live (among earthly torments). Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Father Creator. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
following...
. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 « There is no circumstance, however tragic, that does not have its meaning☆ Excerpt from the chapter: "Why come back??" :

 « For the soul that comes from heaven, birth is death ,” Empedocles had said, five hundred years before Christ. However sublime a spirit may be, once engulfed in the flesh, it loses the memory of all its past. His earthly consciousness is subject to the laws of the world in which he incarnates; he falls under the force of the elements. Great will be the effort to recover the consciousness of his mission. »
(Édouard Schuré, 'The Great Initiates')📗
. »
[ R. Bernard, Grand Master of the Rose Croix ]

Any ordeal can - and must - be used to rise, to question oneself.

 « The fact that there are a number of obstacles in appearance is a grace that you must understand, because it is in difficulty and urgency that you are best able to mobilize all the forces of your creativity. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

 « God's goodness is not always revealed through happy events. Sometimes it takes a disaster or misfortune to pull us out of our lethargy, to encourage us to resume our work of self-improvement. But from a misfortune, a brilliant happiness can arise: the evil is in fact only a means to access the good. Man cannot conceive of what has no opposite. The antagonism of two forces makes it possible to clearly grasp the true value of each. »
 [ "Annaëlle Chimoni's book" ]

 « The difficulties of life are the teachers of the soul.
 I guide you, I enlighten you, but I don't remove the stones from your path. »
(A. Ray-Wendling, "A Sun Too Late")📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Ray-Wendling on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH

 « I realized that a good part of my experiences had been orchestrated by guardian angels. Sad or wonderful, all were designed to increase my perception of myself, to raise me to a higher level of understanding. »
[Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"]

 « The Angel who so tenderly watched over Lili never took temptations away from her, but taught her how essential they are for her inner growth. »
[ Gitta Mallasz, "The Dialogues, as I Experienced Them" ]

 « To build himself, man must face the test. What he is not always aware of is that he inflicts these trials on himself, through his choices, through his behavior. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 « What are you complaining about? Nothing is fortuitous, nothing is wasted, nothing allows you to lament. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

 « We always face what we need to face and we always have the resources to get there. »
( Jean Casault - metaphysician )

 Bypass the difficulties?

 « Don't give the forces of evil the gift of giving up; they're just waiting for you to do so.

 (...) She quickly realised that she had to be wary of herself, of the reasoning she could invent to prove herself right, or to forge pretexts. The need for gentleness is sometimes so strong that, like everyone else, she could easily turn away from her mission. »
[ Olympia Alberti - "Mother Teresa, the kingdom of his night" ]

 « We can refuse to rise to the occasion, which is very often one of suffering; we can refuse this effort, but then it will have to be done later, sometimes even in the dark spheres of the beyond. »
[Paqui, "Heavenly Talks"]

 « On a spiritual path, problems, trials, are not obstacles but means. »
[ Dalai Lama ]

 « Tell the humans of Earth that running away from what you call 'difficulties' is an illusion. A being in the throes of hardship and who seeks to escape his story will inevitably find himself face to face with it. Nobody escapes the school of the Earth because his soul wanted it so. »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

 The role of joys and sorrows

 « Every success teaches us something; each failure teaches us even more. Every experience is worth having. Even a man on his way to be hanged learns something. The one who declares while walking to the gallows: “ This will be a lesson for me!  », isn't wrong. It will be a lesson for him - for his next existence.
 That's why I don't choose the easiest path, but always the hardest. »
(Henry Ford)📗

 « It is not the path that is difficult, but the difficult that is the path. »
(Soren Kierkegaard (1813-1855))

 « Everything in the universe is ebb and flow. Separations, reunions, hopes, disappointments. It is not the fight of Shadow against Light but the play of alternations, the serene mark of balance. All life is born from there, from a movement which encounters another movement, that is to say from an action which discovers its opposite. The opposite is by no means the enemy, did you know that? »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Terre d'émeraude')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

 « The quality of life, if it is a balance between pleasantness and unpleasantness, is practically the same for a native of the forest as for the citizen of a “developed” society. The problems are not the same, nor are the compensations. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 How to build yourself without obstacles?

 « It's not a question of the ship being lenient to the sea's assaults, nor of the sea being gentle to the ship.
 You could say that the sea is the ship’s enemy... but you could also say that it is the wall, limit, and form of the ship, since over the generations it is the division of the waves by the stem which has little by little sculpted the hull, which has become more harmonious to flow into it, and thus has founded it and embellished it. Since one can say that it is the wind, which tears the sails, which has drawn them as it drew the wing, and that without an enemy you have neither form nor measure. »
[ Saint-Exupéry ]

 The help from heaven

 « When you're struggling, we know you're getting stronger,
and when you're nearing your limit, then we're helping you. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

With our five children, the problems followed one after another. Sometimes, distraught, not knowing what to do, I called on God with all my might, day and night. I told him that I was only a man and that despite all my efforts, I wasn't managing with the child he had entrusted to me. Every night before going to sleep, I begged Heaven to help me, every morning, I listened to its inspirations.
And always, everything worked out, everything found a solution.

See chapter below: Help and protection from Heaven

 Surpassing yourself

 « Like the trees, build yourself in the wind, snow and rain. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « The ship would have no shape without the sea. »
[ Saint-Exupéry ]

 « Discover your strengths, know how to use them, do not call for help unnecessarily. If you are looking, ask yourself the right question and learn to listen.

 The help you ask for will be given to you, when you have exhausted your resources. Only the blind and the deaf smash against "fate". »
[ "To those who seek" ]

There are blocked, stagnating situations within a family, or with a spouse, a colleague, or a neighbor... It is a calamity for the ego and the carefree life to which it aspires, but an opportunity for the soul to rise.

« Any contradiction without solution, any irreparable dispute, obliges you to grow to absorb it. »
[ Saint-Exupéry ]

 « Earth is a school of courage and perfection. A human being is in no way the plaything of chance and circumstances. He fashions himself according to his will and his faculties. You see injustice in all of this, but you are wrong. You are convinced that such a gland [example the thyroid for the dwarfs] creates such a character trait or such an aptitude, you are in the right. However, you are not going to the end of your reasoning. How does it come about that a gland manifests itself by greater or lesser activity? a nerve impulse channeled through the brain. But from whom does the brain receive its orders? May reason and human logic take the trouble to seek honestly and always higher because the solution is not found in matter. The carnal vision of men can only witness the consequences of the fundamental laws that govern the balance of the cosmos.

 All of you humans must go beyond the limits that Nature has seemingly imposed on you. You have the capacity within you. It is up to you to cultivate your soul in order to walk on the right path that leads to higher states of consciousness. »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Terre d'émeraude')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

 Do not give in to discouragement

 « When I find myself in a dangerous or very upsetting situation, I have been taught to use affirmations like:«I am an infinite spirit”; “I am a spirit and I am never alone”; “I am a spirit and I am always safe”. By dint of repeating such affirmations, we gradually absorb their meaning. They remind us that we are not just finite beings and that whatever happens within the framework of an incarnation is never more than a temporary part of our existence. »
[ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]

 « Don't miss a single opportunity to grow☆

What does it mean to evolve?

The bird’s reason for being is to fly.
Man’s reason for being is to elevate his soul;
by collecting, by reflecting the Love of the Universe.
To withdraw into what you accumulate is the complete opposite.

The realization of our being

 « The purpose of our life during our passage on Earth, then after our death, in the various worlds of the beyond, is an increasingly complete realization of our being. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

« Every soul must become aware of itself little by little.

 In evolution, the mineral becomes plant, the plant becomes animal and the animal will become human. This is the great chain of life. »
(Hélène Bouvier, medium, "Mission of souls in the afterlife")

 « The important thing for you is to evolve in order to modify your vibrational state.
 The Earth is a domain that allows the soul to modify its vibrations through more or less difficult life experiences. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')

continued...
. Never run away from obstacles, they will allow you to develop your mental and psychic resistance. »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

« I make it easy for you… and all is lost. »
[ Saint-Exupéry ]

 A difficult truth to integrate

Our despondency in the face of injustice or loneliness does not come from our inability to bear it, but from our soul which, with its foot in another dimension, knows that there reigns Love, fairness and peace. And she aspires to it!
Meditate on this heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel to his mother:

 “Your tragedy is to dream of love in a climate of ice.”

If we manage, even for a moment, to fully grasp this truth, we find peace in the midst of torment.

 « Life is just a night spent in a bad inn. »
( Saint Teresa of Ávila )


Home and site MAP > Difficulties >  📃
What did I do to God to deserve this?

Life's setbacks  

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

___

The humiliations  

but an ordeal like any other

___

The "consolations"
(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)
 

___

Help and protection from Heaven  

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations | which ones to follow?  

Ask for help  

_ _

☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

___

The hope


« Assume, scare or comfort yourself,
tomorrow will not be what you expected.
And this is wanted. »

[ "To those who seek" ]
**

These confusing contingencies



 « Tonight you are so sad. Listen to this: anything that breaks your routine makes us happy. The fact that you break your daily automatisms is a source of delight for us.

 A habit is a rope moored to the ground. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « Never fear change in your life, see it as the rising sun. »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

  The usual hides the flaws.
  If you knock it over, they appear.
  The usual is death, the Concealer,
  the Sly.
  It is the enemy that hides in what is dead.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « Life is change, sometimes big, sometimes small, but without change there can be no evolution. »
(Marlo Morgann, 'Message from Eternity')
(Australian Aboriginal Life Principles)
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The Danger of Routine

 « Nothing thwarts our influence more than these still waters in which you stagnate. Your understanding is insensitive to our radiations. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « I'm a bit afraid of habits; I saw how much they froze the consciousness. »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Les neuf marches')  📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

 « Emotions are a source of lessons.
 How could I grow if I don't live diverse experiences, pleasant and unpleasant? »
[Rosemary Altea, "Free as the Spirit"]


Home and site MAP > Difficulties >  📃
What did I do to God to deserve this?

Life's setbacks  

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

___

The humiliations  

but an ordeal like any other

Laugh at yourself

___

The "consolations"
(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)
 

___

Help and protection from Heaven  

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations | which ones to follow?  

Ask for help  

_ _

☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

___

The hope


« What interests me is the lives of men who have failed, because it's a sign that they tried to surpass themselves. »
( Georges Clémenceau )

Failures, shocks, unfairness

  « Honor to those who never stray from the truth, even in darkness and difficulty; those who always try and aren't discouraged by insults, humiliation, or even defeat. »
📗
( Nelson Mandela, President of South Africa
sentenced to life imprisonment in 1964, released in 1990 )

I received this surprising lesson: we are not on Earth to establish justice, peace or happiness (God would have done it if He had wished).
We are on Earth to shape ourselves by confronting the difficulties... of establishing justice, peace and happiness there.

 How could equality reign here?

« (...) I could see that Earth is a place where good and evil mix, and that is one of its characteristics. »
(Pr B. Alexander, after a near-death experience )📗 🔍Contributions of Pr Alexander on the theme of:

LOVE, DEATH

 « If on Earth, we are all mixed, it is for, in interaction with each other, trying to move forward and illuminate our shadowy parts. We need each other to evolve☆

What does it mean to evolve?

The bird’s reason for being is to fly.
Man’s reason for being is to elevate his soul;
by collecting, by reflecting the Love of the Universe.
To withdraw into what you accumulate is the complete opposite.

The realization of our being

 « The purpose of our life during our passage on Earth, then after our death, in the various worlds of the beyond, is an increasingly complete realization of our being. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

« Every soul must become aware of itself little by little.

 In evolution, the mineral becomes plant, the plant becomes animal and the animal will become human. This is the great chain of life. »
(Hélène Bouvier, medium, "Mission of souls in the afterlife")

 « The important thing for you is to evolve in order to modify your vibrational state.
 The Earth is a domain that allows the soul to modify its vibrations through more or less difficult life experiences. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')

continued...
, and we must find in the difficulty and in the negativity of the other, the light that will help us to move forward. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 « The land of men is like men, it breeds injustice; God sometimes repairs evil, but what is external to being is subject to external laws. The lazy can find himself in the same opulence as the valiant, and the deserving can be treated worse than the libertine. Do not seek any noble hierarchy where man is the master.
 But there is a kingdom where the sun shines only for those who work; no reward for the lukewarm, only the pilgrim who toils is rewarded. The anxious person finds rest, while the other is without appeasement. »
[ Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel ]

 Life is a struggle

In the plant or animal kingdom, under the sea, on land or in the air, at every moment, it is force or cunning that predominates. To feed, protect yourself or have more space. The same is true in the human environment.

But the soul who has known freedom, justice, fraternity suffers from it.
However, she came...

 « Do not envy success, do not pity failure, for you do not know what success or failure is in the eyes of the soul. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 ☞ Succeed in life

« For the soul, there is no success, no failure. Everything is positive from the point of view of evolution and learning. »
( V. Bobée et V. Germont, 'Follow your soul, it knows the way' )

 « It's not what you achieve that's important, but how hard you work. »
[ R. Altea, "A long ladder to the sky" ]

 The cruel feeling of injustice

 « Just as Moses was unable to set foot in the Promised Land, Mahatma Gandhi was assassinated and died heartbroken because the nation he wanted to unite had divided. The Apostle Paul's fondest dream was to go to Spain and bring the Gospel there. He never made it to Spain. He ended up in a Roman prison cell.

 What makes me happy is that I can hear this voice telling me: "Maybe you won't make it today, nor tomorrow, but it's good that this thought is in your heart . It's good that you try. You may not see it. The dream may not come true, but it's good that you have the desire to make it a reality." »
( Martin Luther King, the day before his assassination )📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions of Martin Luther King on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH

 « We must understand that along the way, difficulty strengthens us, that the struggle is perpetual, but that it is first and foremost internal. All truly great men have gone through periods of trial. Those who devote themselves to the defense of peace will encounter war. Those who advocate nonviolence will encounter violence along the way. The defender will suffer defeat, and the just man will face injustice. The religious man will fall prey to temptations, and until the final stage, the wise man who trusts in destiny will experience periods of doubt and anguish. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 « I had the conviction that death was only the continuation of life when my mother, deceased, spoke to me. At the time I didn't really believe in "mediumship", but my skepticism disappeared as soon as I saw the medium go into a trance. She quickly had to lie down and adopted the posture that was once my mother's due to her paralysis. I saw my mother's features and characteristics overlapping clearly with those of this woman.
 With great difficulty, my mother spoke to me. She explained to me that she had chosen a difficult life to learn compassion towards those who suffer and that despite appearances, if you look below the surface, you see that things are always fair.

 The message she delivered to me transformed my view of the world and caused the re-opening of the gifts of clairvoyance which I possessed as a child, but which I had rejected, fearing that I was abnormal. »
[Ellen Tadd, medium]

Failure, unfairness are bitter when we have done our best and when our efforts are swept away. That we see the deceiver triumph and leave us humiliated.
We failed...
But that's forgetting that we're here to learn to overcome setbacks.

 « As soon as you work on your inner improvement, you are led to strip yourself of the idea of ​​injustice. There is never injustice where the aftershock of a shock or a failure has made you move one step forward. »
[ Roland de Jouvenel ]

 « Right, even in defeat, remains stronger than triumphant evil. »
( Martin Luther King )

 « Only the development of inner strength matters. If you act for the result, it means that in you human values ​​predominate.. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « Facing a problem makes you grow, whether you solve it or not. »
[ Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

 « To evolve is to fight. But your detachment must be great enough to be able to say to you at any moment: I am ready to give up success. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 The failure

 « As in any war, there are defeats, which are then very hard to bear. The ordeal is followed by an even worse ordeal. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 « Never let failure discourage you if you have done your best. »
( Mother Teresa )

Proud (rightly) of his work "The Damnation of Faust", Hector Berlioz is dismayed and ruined by the rental of the opera house which remained empty.
 “What a misfortune not to live 150 years! How we would end up getting the better of these rascally idiots! »  he exclaimed.

Which echoes Bizet (who died three months after the failure of "Carmen" - the most performed French opera in the world, and still bruised by the disdain which accompanied the brief career of "Pêcheurs de pearls"), who wrote in turn :

 “The artist is only at his plan a hundred years after his death!” Is it sad? No, it's just foolish..."

 « Thwarted desires, unfulfilled desires and impulses, cruel separations, indifference, deceit, the casualness of those we love, refusals to repeated requests, vexations, all of this can, paradoxically, turn out to be very profitable, if the point of view is changed. »
(Daniel Robin, 'Death and beyond')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Daniel Robin on the theme of:

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 « Do not anchor your failures in yourself, detach them from your mind, let no melancholy come to strengthen them, do not diminish yourself in relation to them, because very often they are disappointments of a material nature. If the personality knew how to transcend these trials, it would find itself enriched and would have grown. Always remain a lucid observer of the displeasures inflicted by circumstances. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « The human being sees progress only in the progression, progress can also be in regression followed by a new start, a new impetus. »
[ Message collected by Maguy Lebrun ]

 « You come to Earth to raise your consciousness through learning. Learning does not mean succeeding in everything you do.
 All emotions, feelings are to be experienced. For the soul, which has no age, a life is like a draft, which it can start again many times. »
( V. Bobée et V. Germont, 'Follow your soul, it knows the way' )

A failure accepted with dignity is better than a success.

 « You must honestly face your destroyed dream. Running away from the problem by trying to push the disappointment out of your mind would lead you to a harmful psychological repression.
Instead, boldly examine your failure:
"How can I turn this obstacle into a starting point?" .

 Many thus changed their thorns into crowns. »
( Martin Luther King )📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions of Martin Luther King on the subject of:

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If you've tried everything and then assumed the bite of failure,
in truth you've won.
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 « Man does not lower himself by his failures but by the alibis he invokes. »
[Elie Wiesel, 'Hasidic Celebration']

 « Friends, you cannot avoid earthly heaviness. You must go through it deeply with all that it entails of illness, disappointments and suffering. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]

 « Mistakes are inevitable, just make sure they are not unnecessary. Human evolution is made of errors and realizations. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 Indian Yaqui sorcerer: « All I do must be an act free from expectation, free from fear of failure and hope of success, free from the cult of self. »
(Carlos Castaneda, "The Definitive Journey")📗
* *
He who corrects his mistake
has more merit than he who never makes mistakes.
* *
 « In life, the real source of failure lies in the thought: 'I am pathetic, incapable...' »
[ Dalai Lama ]

 « Lamenting a past misfortune is the surest way to attract another. »
( William SHAKESPEARE (1564 - 1616) )


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Life's setbacks  

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

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The humiliations, a challenge for the soul

but an ordeal like any other

Laugh at yourself

___

The "consolations"
(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)
 

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Help and protection from Heaven  

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations | which ones to follow?  

Ask for help  

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☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

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The hope

« The humiliations of this world
cannot reduce your inner values. »

[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

The humiliations

An ordeal for the soul
but an ordeal like any other
Beware of hasty interpretations


 An ordeal for the soul

 « Killing the body is less serious than harming the soul. »
[ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]

 « I have never been beaten physically, but I have bruises on my soul.

 In evoking rape, we most often think of that of the body, but we must neither forget nor minimize the rape of the spirit, of the soul, which many of us often suffer. The perpetrators of this act, far from being violent criminals, but for most ordinary people, will raise their arms to heaven if they are called rapists.
 And yet they are fine with it, because anything done to rob us of our self-worth, self-esteem, and confidence is an act of rape.

 In reality, we have all been victimized. Worse still, we have all, at some point, played the role of the rapist. This reality, we must look at it frankly if we want to maintain a good relationship with ourselves. It's hard to admit, and we even start denying it, but it's a proven fact: when we're angry, we kick, we hurt. Sometimes during a joke at someone else's expense, we steal something from them.
 Throughout my life, anger and frustration have driven me to say many things. Even though I gave myself a few good excuses, I'm not entirely innocent. It's not easy to look yourself in the face, and I could have given myself a hell of a stick on the head, but I can neither cancel my gesture nor erase my words.
 When two beings quarrel violently, each can be in turn, victim or rapist. Whatever the discussion, anyone who tries to impose their beliefs by force on a third party wants to strip that person of what they believe is right. »
[ R. Altea, "Free as the Spirit" ]

« The soul is a higher part of ourselves, but this dimension between our incarnated being and our divine essence can be hurt by certain experiences lived in existence. »
[ Stéphane Allix, about mediums ]

 « I hate irony, which is not of man but of dunce. »
[ Saint-Exupéry ]

 ☞   Words that hurt, that kill

 ☞   In the face of wickedness

 but an ordeal like any other

Wounded self-esteem, bruised pride, thwarted expectations... So many knife wounds to our ego. Unjust or not, let's not rush to pity him or worse, avenge him. These insults to our image are so many opportunities to surpass ourselves.

 « Excellent this indignation which will force you to rebuild yourself in your house. »
[ Saint-Exupéry ]

 « It is easy to verify that everything in this world is made to hurt our natural pride and cultivate virtues such as humility and patience. »
(Daniel Robin, 'Death and beyond')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Daniel Robin on the theme of:

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 Beware of hasty interpretations

Those we meet send out sometimes negative signals. But what motivated such a gesture, such a word on their part?
Their mood? Or our attitude, whether present or past?
We too send out signals
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Human relations" :

 See each other and accept each other

Who is aware of his weaknesses understands those of others;
who never questions himself is implacable.

 « If someone looks at us as his enemy, we are the first responsible. »
(Gandhi)📗

The angel: You are thought ill of.
Lili: Did I wrong someone?
The angel: This is only possible.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

following...
unpleasant. Even if they don't seem to have been heard, are they forgotten?

Before taking offense, let's realize this.

 « Most people hear insults where a simple comment has been made, if that comment is about something they don't want to take on. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]


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What did I do to God to deserve this?

Life's setbacks  

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

___

The humiliations  

but an ordeal like any other

Laugh at yourself

___

The "consolations"
(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)
 

___

Help and protection from Heaven  

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations | which ones to follow?  

Ask for help  

_ _

☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

___

The hope


They laugh at me, they are right.
My ego is ridiculous with its pride and dignity.
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Learn to laugh at yourself

  « You have no hope except in the sacrifice of the vanity of your image. Excellent, this indignation will force you to rebuild yourself inside. »
[ Saint-Exupéry ]

 « Once we laugh at ourselves, because we are foolish to run after the I love you  from others, we are finally freed. »
(Testimony of a former singer
collected by Maddly Bamy, "To love without expecting anything in return")
📗  magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Maddly Bamy on the subject of:

The WAY, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

« My adversaries think they are harming me,. » said Rabbi Nahman. In fact, they help me enormously; my gleams, it is to them that I owe them.
 I need someone to quarrel with me. This way I rise from one degree to another every moment; I am constantly changing. »

 They insulted him, they humiliated him. We end up doubting his reason, thus realizing his deep wish.

 Yes, he wanted people to look askance at him. This is why he often changed his identity, his disguise; he wanted to be different. Comedian, impostor, jester, rather than Rabbi.

 He knew how to laugh, wanted to laugh, first of himself, and then of the rest. He played with the kids in the street to mock the Rebbe in him; he played war games to mock wars. He posed like a madman to make fun of reason and appearances, like a nomad without baggage to underline the grotesqueness of possession.

 He clowned around to get rid of the last traces of vanity that remained in him. At home, he chose the other extreme: he disarmed his pride by pushing it to the limit; by exaggerating his own importance in all areas. By giving itself implausible dimensions, deliberately caricatural. To laugh about it, and certainly also to provoke his opponents. »
[Elie Wiesel, 'Hasidic Celebration']

 « The understanding of the puppet that I am frees me from my bondage. Poor faded puppet! Humor is victorious, as it is good to laugh at oneself... »
(Jeanne Guesné, 'The Great Passage')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Jeanne Guesné on the theme of:

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 « Have fun on Earth!" We laugh all the time to see you take everything too seriously . »
[Doreen Virtue, "Communicating with Angels"]

 « There is no reason to be serious in everything we do, since humor helps us to laugh at ourselves.
 When you manage to laugh at yourself, and not at others, you approach the essential questions that allow you to remember to dare to love others, and therefore to have an open door to the goal to be achieved. I had a sense of humor for others but not at all for myself. To laugh at oneself, one must not be afraid of seeing oneself idiotically; to be able to see yourself whining for little things, when you have treasures in you that you do absolutely nothing with. »
(Testimony of a former humorist collected by Maddly Bamy,
"To love without expecting anything in return")
📗  magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Maddly Bamy on the subject of:

The WAY, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

 « Reviewing the film of their life, the dying often express these regrets: « Ah, if only I could have taken life less seriously! »They view their professional, social, or other successes with pride, but they have come to understand that existence isn't limited to this aspect. They have the feeling of having failed when their professional success has not been accompanied by that of their personal life. »
[ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]


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What did I do to God to deserve this?

Life's setbacks  

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

___

The humiliations  

but an ordeal like any other

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 Cigarettes, alcohol, drugs

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Help and protection from Heaven  

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations | which ones to follow?  

Ask for help  

_ _

☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

___

The hope

 The "Consolations"

Cigarettes, alcohol, drugs...

The Way and the Weight
Easy prey
The alcohol
A smoker under the influence
The danger of certain music
The drug opens the doors

 ☞ But how to continue living??


  All intoxication is a foretaste of weightlessness.
  That's why man seeks it...
  but on the wrong path.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

A billionaire struck down by heart attack has near-death experience. An Angel shows him his life :

 « (...) He showed me how I had blinded myself to my origins and the meaning of my existence. He helped me understand that I had reached the point of believing my life would end with the death of my body. This explained why I had never been interested in inner searching.
 I had distanced myself from God through simple negligence. Instead of seeking fulfillment through a spiritual quest, I had chosen sensual pleasures, the intoxication of alcohol, and the exhilaration of drugs, not to mention the excitement and reassurance provided by material possessions.
 I realized that my earthly thirsts could only be quenched by following the path of knowledge, of light. Every morning, I woke up with an empty feeling in the pit of my stomach that craved to be filled.
 I realized that I had become an alcoholic to quench this thirst.
 I finally saw how foolish it was to choose a negative path to achieve positive results. »
( Ned Dougherty, "Fast Lane to Heaven" )📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Ned Dougherty on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH

  What is the Way (elevation) for you is Weight (difficulty) for me (angel).

 (Descending to Earth is an ordeal for the Angels because they must lower their vibration)

  The Weight (difficulties) that weighs on the earth is the Way (elevation).

 (Weight is the load that weighs on man during his stay on Earth.)

  WHO ON EARTH IS WITHOUT WEIGHT,
   IS WITHOUT
WAY.
 (The man who either has no responsibilities or doesn't assume them is turning away from the Way of elevation)

  THE MATTER YOU ASSUME IS THE WEIGHT.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 Easy prey for the spirits of the lower astral

« For an alcoholic, drinking destroys their magnetism and weakens them. Beings lacking in purity can then feed off their energy; it is his vital force, the one that allows him to live on Earth, that they covet. For them, it represents a possibility of life, like water for the plant. And by draining their victim of his life force, they truly exhaust him. They can be compared to certain parasitic plants which take up residence on a tree.
 The best thing that can happen to a drunkard is to meet someone with a strong will and magnetic powers, because magnetism has healing power. »
[ Franchezzo Farnèze & Pierre Jovanovic "The explorer of the beyond" ]

 « When a being gives up an uninhabited space in their physical body, which happens with all kinds of 'drugs,' entities looking for a vehicle to experience matter or to continue living a life on earth rush to take their place. These entities do not know human laws and are inherently amoral. The consequences can be dramatic because they act and react according to their level of consciousness which is very often primary. »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

 « People who suffer from deep despair or who have a self-destructive disposition, such as alcoholics and drug addicts, are particularly susceptible to negative attacks. »
[ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]

 « The alcoholic is in fact the prisoner of a disembodied entity - often a close relative who died of intoxication. To treat the alcoholic, two people must be treated: the living patient and his parasite. »
[a reading by Edgar Cayce]

 ☞ Testimony of a parasitized young man

 The alcohol

I am suffering. With each breath, I have this pressure on my chest that chokes me. Night, day.
My only respite is when I take a sip of alcohol. The effect is immediate. My brain feels free, my chest is released from the vise that grips it.

But I'm careful to avoid addiction. Moreover, I know that suffering is inevitable when you live on earth, and I know that struggling to get out of certain situations is like fidgeting while caught in brambles.
I haven't given up alcohol yet. But I reserve the wine for the meals. I take two glasses. The rest of the time I appeal to my will and I help myself this way.

✩ ✩

I just read a book on the evils of alcohol. It's scary.
From today I stop reading.

✩ ✩

 A smoker under the influence

Sylvie's guide calls out to her:

 « I heard you earlier realize that smoking helps you suppress your emotions. It's totally true ! But how do you want to know yourself if you cut yourself off from your inner emotions?

 Your body is a precious tool, you must love and respect it. You are fully responsible for whether you weaken or protect it. Having a healthy and light body must become a priority for you. Listen to Jean, a former smoker who died of cancer:

 « Beyond any external influence, the smoker is basically nostalgic, melancholy. Tobacco, like alcohol, is an anesthetic that provides puffs of pleasure, but over the years brings torpor, emotional imbalance, flooding the delicate organs with toxins, devitalizing them and thus breaking the balance of the human body. Every being should know why he plants a time bomb in his depths... Man fights pain, but also seeks it powerfully... Vanity of one who believes he can counter the natural laws of nature without pay the price.

 When an addicted smoker dies, their desire to smoke doesn't disappear. They then 'latch onto' a smoker to perpetuate their vice through the smoker's feelings. It seems to me that lately you have been smoking without realizing it...
»

This truth that I had stifled by my passive complacency grabs my consciousness. Half of my deceased "friends" SMOKE!  (out of compassion, Sylvie, the medium let herself be invaded by about thirty entities wandering between two worlds) I know this because we often joked about it. When I went out forgetting my cigarettes, there were always one or two to say to me: “ You forgot your cigarettes! "or " Here, have a cigarette, it will relax you ".

 My lucidity has a bitter taste; my so-called friends persisted in destroying me to satisfy their trivial earthly cravings! One of them had died of throat cancer caused by smoking, but not for a single moment did he advise me to stop, on the contrary, he said to me:

 - What a pleasure, huh, this cigarette after the coffee…

 A dull anger dangerously swells my heart. I feel betrayed, flouted deep within myself.

 - No, no, calm down. You risk descending from the plane of consciousness and finding them again! You alone are responsible. Don't forget that they don't have enough spiritual understanding, they don't realize.
 So, finished the cigarette?

 - Yes, thank you, John. Thank you for your teaching. But you, when you died, did you still want to smoke?

 - No, I smoked for forty years, and my throat making me suffer, I stopped. When I died, nine years later, I was detoxified.

 « I was able to observe the ravages that all drugs in general caused on the unweaned dead… I then felt the urge to put myself at the service of Heaven to try to save those who want to get out of it. »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

 ☞  Prolongation and aggravation of addictions after death

 The danger of certain music

 « Alcohol and drugs induce a sort of trance, opening the door to entities from the lower astral who come to possess the drinker or drug addict.
 The phenomenon is the same for certain rock concerts where the music is made precisely to put the listener into a trance: violently hammering the glandular centers ☆ « Women put on perfume to attract a man: the smell released plays on the glandular centers, allowing the opening of the sexual chakras. Many animal species, in the mating season, secrete a perfume for this purpose. » (or chakra ), it provokes their opening by modifying the vibratory level. The listener "doesn't feel" anymore and turns into a zombie... literally, because often he becomes the prey of an entity.
 Rock concerts in the United States and England were often deadly, and followed by a resurgence of violence attested by statistics.
 The living person is then manipulated by the occult force of the dead, to which they become a prisoner.
 Besides, it's a tale as old as time" (ou "as old as the world") : "African sorcerers and healers induced trances through music. Incantatory, repetitive, haunting rhythms open the chakras. This trance originally had a therapeutic purpose. Unfortunately, this African music—and the trance it produces—has been diverted from its religious and therapeutic purpose, making it extremely dangerous.
 These musical techniques cause the chakras to open without any protection, exposing millions of young listeners to the most destructive occult forces.

 You should also know that certain fashionable activities, such as yoga, astral travel, or the use of crystals, promote the 'unscrewing' of the chakras—causing even more harm because people don't know what they are doing...

 According to Cayce, the first step in all meditation and prayer is the voluntary and controlled opening of the chakras. In other words, you have to put yourself in a state of light trance to cause a change in your vibrational level. »
[ Dorothée Koechlin, "L'univers d'Edgar Cayce" ]📗

 « My guides told me that certain music can arouse negative emotions in us. »
[Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"]

 Drugs open the door to lower-astral entities

 « To you, my little one, who puff on your first joints so you don't lose face in front of your friends: have the courage to say no. It is better to lose face than to lose your soul.
 From the moment we smoke this “beautiful herb” with regularity, we gradually emit vibrations that attract the forces of evil and believe me, they have difficulty letting go of their prey. »
[ Message collected by Maguy Lebrun ]

  ☞ The sad end of a young man

  ☞ A fatal addiction

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What did I do to God to deserve this?

Life's setbacks  

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

___

The humiliations  

but an ordeal like any other

___

The "consolations"
(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)
 

___

Help and protection from Heaven

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations | which ones to follow?  

Ask for help  

_ _

☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

___

The hope


Our relationship with Heaven

Help and protection from Heaven

An essential chain
The role of our guardian angels
 ☞ A thankless task
Solicit them
The scope of their help
Notice their help
Why don't they intervene more often?

Each of us is followed and assisted by several angels and companions. With a clear vision of our life and the reason for our trials, they are part of our earthly adventure.

 Where are they ?

 « The Angel is part of us; he is our greatest strength and most beautiful qualities, the highest level of ourselves, filled with love. He is not outside of us☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live (among earthly torments). Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Father Creator. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
following...
, even if he may appear to be in cases of danger or on certain occasions. »
(Ariane Delafontaine, "Guides and Angels of Healing")

 An essential chain

« Now that you are swimming in increasing happiness (in the spiritual world), I ask you to extend your hand, in a burst of fraternal love, to all the suffering souls you have left behind. They are still struggling in the darkness of life or in the realms of the earth plane. »
[ Franchezzo Farnèze & Pierre Jovanovic "The explorer of the beyond" ]

 « At the time I didn't know it, but I was only the last link (a slightly evolved spirit, therefore closer to the earth, but eager to help) in a long chain of spirits providing help at the same time. Each spirit precedes the one below it by one degree, and its task is to give strength, should the spirit below tire or fail. My role also had a lesson: it was by forgetting myself and sacrificing my well-being that I could really help someone.
 And because I continued to be linked to the earth plane, I could intrude into a mortal's mind more closely than a more advanced mind could. I had to imprint on the mind of the man I was influencing what my experience had been. Everything I felt, he felt too, so he could have said that he was obsessed with the consequences of the actions he wanted to commit. »
[ Franchezzo Farnèze & Pierre Jovanovic "The explorer of the beyond" ]

 « Never forget that the Spirit is always placed between a superior who guides and perfects it, and an inferior towards whom it has the same duties to fulfill.
 Be charitable, therefore, not only to open your purse, but to meet hidden miseries. »
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

finger Do I have to be perfect to help?

 The role of our guardian angels

 « The spiritual guides encourage us to know our imperfections better, in order to fight and dominate them. On this depends our stagnation or our progress on the long road that leads to God. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet (medium) ]

So instead of ignoring them, let's pay attention to the inspirations they send to us, to the signs they place on our path.
And do not hesitate to ask them for help.

 « You don't know what to do,
but have you even thought to ask? »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Par l’esprit du Soleil')

 Solicit them

Send me an angel
(The scorpions)


Wise man said just walk this way
To the dawn of the light
Wind will blow into your face
As the years pass you by
Hear this voice from deep inside
It's the call of your heart
See more...
Close your eyes and you will find
Passage out of the dark
Here I am (Here I am)
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am (Here I am)
In the land of the morning star
Wise man said just find your place
In the eye of the storm
Seek the roses along the way
Just beware of the thorns
Here I am (Here I am)
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am (Here I am)
In the land of the morning star
Wise man said just raise your hand
And reach out for the spell
Find the door to the promised land
Just believe in yourself
Hear this voice from deep inside
It's the call of your heart
Close your eyes and you will find
The way out of the dark
Here I am (Here I am)
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am (Here I am)
In the land of the morning star (Here I am)
Will you send me an angel?
Here I am (Here I am)
...
Fold

 « Beings of Light provide advice to guide the soul, but they are not always listened to by a body too anchored in matter.

 Beings of light, due to the nature of their vibrations, cannot approach the terrestrial world. Furthermore, they can only intervene from a certain moment, when the heart, through its own desire to understand and see, is ready to cross an important stage. »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Terre d'émeraude')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

 « Angels are all around us, unseen and eager to help us, but God has given us agency and they will not violate it. It is only by soliciting them that we give them the authorization to help us. »
[Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']

 « We are silent, we are not seen, but our main concern is to help you. So come talk with us on your walks. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')   magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Rosine Terral-Meyer
on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH

You are in pain. You are... like at the bottom of a well.
Ask an angel to help you.
Imagine the rope stretching from the top of the well.
Help the angel by relieving you of your sad thoughts.
First those for which you can't do anything,
then those that reveal non-immediate problems.

See chapter below: Asking for help

 The scope of their help

 « A Guardian Angel can advise us on demand in dreams, through synchronicities such as opening a book on the right page, drawing our gaze in the right direction or more directly through intuition. »
(Ariane Delafontaine, "Guides and Angels of Healing")

 « The guides are present in your daily life to help you, not to prevent you from doing something foolish. Our mission is to protect you, to advise you through your conscience, but never to force you into anything. It would interfere with your free will.

- And what do you do when people don't listen to you?

 - Our help, and each one of us (guardian angels and spiritual guides) will try to make you listen to reason in its own way, is proportional to the attention that everyone pays to their conscience, but no one is left behind. And then there are all your loved ones who, from the invisible, mingle with this round of celestial helpers. No one in the world is abandoned for a moment. Never☆

The Angel affirms it

   TU ARE NEVER ALONE.  [ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

However, often in life, we feel terribly alone.
As alone as a young child "thrown" in the middle of a playground can be.
His mother loves him and thinks of him but she cannot avoid him jostling and harassment.

. »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

 « Let us remember that the more we become aware of (the higher we raise our thinking towards) their presence (Angels) , the easier and more effective their assistance. Conversely, the more we feel or believe alone and helpless, the more difficult it is for them to help us. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 - Is the help of angels always about moral conduct?

 « Even things of private life; they try to make you live as well as possible. »
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

 « Our capacity of mind can in a very short space of time analyze and immediately respond to your thoughts and even sometimes feel your thought long before it manifests itself.

 (...) If I managed to capture his thought before his repartee, I allow myself to convey the message to be given by his voice. In order not to intervene in this way, I capture the thought of my little medium and act without going through his verb, but by formulating my thought. This is how we can alter the course of your verbal exchange during a discussion and even a lecture. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')   magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Rosine Terral-Meyer
on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH

If my attention is diverted or if I am interrupted when I am about to launch a joke or a remark, I immediately renounce it and I am silent. Because from experience, I know I was going to say something foolish or make a mistake.

 « Guardian angels can deflect objects, prevent us from having accidents, whisper ideas in our ears, etc. Conversely, they can also be the cause of some of our mishaps, such as breaking a leg or being bedridden, in order to slow us down and prevent us from rushing into even greater danger. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 Notice their help

 « The guides act in the shadows because otherwise you wouldn't take a single step without asking for our opinion. However, our main role is to whisper advice to guide each being toward the peak of their possibilities. While respecting his free choice. Each of you was born with a very specific goal to achieve. We are here to help you “bring it to light”, but it is up to you to realize it boldly. It is a very elaborate treasure hunt. We, the guides, are constantly sending you signs… It is up to you to interpret them with your insight. »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

 « GOD speaks to us through signs. It is imperative that we listen to these signs. The phenomena of synchronicity, for example, are not due to chance; they have a meaning. »
(Message collected by Daniel Robin, 'Death and beyond')📗 magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Daniel Robin on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH

 « 'Significant coincidences' punctuate our daily lives: a snippet of conversation, a sign, an advertising slogan, a song on the radio... We must listen to the slightest emotion, the slightest sensation. From time to time a small voice reaches us, and we tell ourselves that it's an intuition, but it's often lost in the constant hubbub of our minds. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 « Don't always say that everything I send you is a coincidence; that annoys me. Believe. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel to his mother]



 Why don't they intervene more often?

  - How could I still hear your voice?

The answer is given to me with disdain:

  Then you would just be a puppet!
  You are the one who must approach me.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

- You rarely talk to me. I don't know what I should do...

 « You must never lose control of your own existence. Already try to hear what you should not do! »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

 « You have your own strengths; they should be enough for you. We only intervene in extreme cases, and only if you are ready. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 « Before being born, with an expanded field of consciousness, a person decides to cross certain zones of turbulence. The loved one in the afterlife will witness these difficult crossings but will not be able to intervene. And even if they could, the Guide of the being in difficulty wouldn't accept it, because the Guide sees the difficulty differently, within the totality of the soul's life. »
( Christine André, 'Listen, you need to know' )📗  🔍Contributions by Christine André on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE ou DEATH


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What did I do to God to deserve this?

Life's setbacks  

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

___

The humiliations  

but an ordeal like any other

___

The "consolations"
(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)
 

___

Help and protection from Heaven  

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations | which ones to follow?  

Ask for help  

_ _

☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

___

The hope

[ Help and protection from Heaven ]

Who are those
who protect us?

_ _

  « We all have two or three guides who take turns supporting and protecting us. Some are assigned solely to protect us physically from birth and don't need to come into contact with us, even as they accompany us throughout our lives.
 Some guides escort us to awaken us to other spiritual dimensions and will try everything to reveal their presence to us through signs, coincidences, dazzling intuitions that will force us to ask ourselves questions.
 In special cases, guides come punctually to support us. We are never alone
☆

The Angel affirms it

   TU ARE NEVER ALONE.  [ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

However, often in life, we feel terribly alone.
As alone as a young child "thrown" in the middle of a playground can be.
His mother loves him and thinks of him but she cannot avoid him jostling and harassment.

. No one is alone at any time in their life. »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

 « Each embodied soul is under the responsibility of a spirit, an old friend appointed by God to help them. It is one of the most beautiful and active links between Earth and Heaven.
 I am dear mother, your “guardian angel”. The very beautiful spirit that once followed you has handed you over to my custody, which often happens. They await the return of a momentarily embodied spirit capable of wielding greater influence. My dear dad has been under the care of his mother since childhood. Particularly luminous spirit whom I have learned to love here, not only as we love each other in our love spheres, but through my personality and his.
 However, the guardian spirits remain concerned about all those they loved on earth. It is not a question of presence which unites us more particularly to a soul, but of responsibility. You see, it's not just a tete-a-tete between you and me, there are many of us, those you loved on earth, whom you still love (because your forgetfulness causes separation) to crowd around you, helping each other to help you.
 The "great swarm" is working at God's work on all of you. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

 « A guardian angel (as they are also called here) is not required - unless specifically condemned - to stay where they don't feel well. Those who stay, even if there is disagreement, do so out of love. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 « We, the guides of light, only follow the plans established, well before your birth, by yourself.

 (...) We know your background. We accompany the beings with whom we share certain affinities and who risk committing the same mistakes that we made during our earthly life. We know exactly how they feel, because we have experienced it. It redeems our own faults, but contributing to your advancement is above all an act of selfless love.

 We all have a tremendous sense of love and compassion for our proteges, and we all have great respect for your courage to grow as human beings. »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

 « We are at the service of humanity, listening to those who cry out in hunger, thirst, and the suffering of living without love and without sustenance. We want to bring them some of that living food that can nourish their cells, which are so sick, so sad, and so cluttered with negativity and miasma. So, reader, be ready to face yourself, to surrender to the Flow that is Life, which reconnects with the primordial tradition—the one that created man to gather the Spirit and become a co-creator with the Source of life.
 We are here, by your side. To feel us, you need the impulse of the heart within you, to listen to its truth.
 Friends, we are with you to give birth to you in the light, like benevolent brothers. Patients, without ever hindering your freedom, but ready to use every loophole to pour into the gaping wounds a nectar that irrigates your entire being. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

 « The Spirit comes from entities, from 'accompanying spirits'. These guardian angels relive through you the experience they lack. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 Are they pure and perfect?

 « Angels are messengers of God. We (guardians) will never be angels, but always men. Our masters are human spirits who have reached a higher level (than our own). »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

 « Access to eternal life is for those who have definitively freed themselves from these cycles, who have succeeded in distilling the essential within themselves. These victors all have a very strong affinity with the human species they come from. They were betrayed, they made mistakes, they cheated, and they paid their debts. They went through all of this before you did. They were never spared from temptation or doubt.

 If God became man, he would have neither the power to set an example nor, above all, the power to teach.
 Only a man's word can help men.

 These men who have reached the top cannot forget those who drag themselves on the road. Closer to each of you than you imagine, however, they speak only if you are ready to listen. If you are lost, remember :

 " From the depths of your distress, seek me, call me. I am not far from you." »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 « I am one of your guides, you call me Gabriel. I am on a medium level, that is to say where it is possible to redeem oneself from some errors committed on earth by asking God for the possibility of helping a protege in his mission, of following him, of advising him, to support him, encourage him when he strives to improve. I am not a spirit of a higher plane, I am not the guide who supervises your life, but of those who protect you and help you to work in the good.
 I had on Earth a life similar to yours, I was a medium, in charge of proving the survival of the soul and awakening consciences. I'm not perfect but I've done a lot of good around me. However, I fell into the trap of pride and selfishness. But a medium must remain humble and expect no recognition. In addition, I abandoned the family obligations provided for in my life plan
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

 Decision, life plan

- How and when are the spiritual goals that we must achieve defined?

 « You all live a more or less long period of wandering in the spiritual world between two incarnations. It is relative to your efforts to progress. When your degree of evolution allows it, you choose the outline of your next life on earth, with the approval of your guides. A life plan is established, with the choice of your family and its social environment, your professional, sentimental, friendly, material and financial lines, as well as your health.

 Part of the life experiences are determined in advance according to your achievements or weaknesses of past lives. They will become unmissable events, highlighting the main weaknesses to be eliminated. Nevertheless, the majority of your experiences will reveal themselves through the free choice of your attitudes and behavior. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

following...
. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

 « Guardian angels are sometimes confused with spiritual guides. A spirit guide is a loving being who has lived on Earth. They also act as guardian angels, in that they bring many gifts into our lives. The main difference is that the energy of true guardian angels, who have never been on Earth, has a higher vibrational frequency. »
[Doreen Virtue, "Communicating with Angels"]

 « The wings of angels, archangels, and seraphim are obviously just an attribute imagined by men to justify the movements of these pure spirits through the air. They can, however, appear to people with this accessory to respond to their thoughts, just as other spirits take on the appearance they had on earth to be recognized. »
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

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«The role of a permanent guide with a human
is the one that requires the most involvement. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')   magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Rosine Terral-Meyer
on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH

The thankless task of the Angels

The task of a guardian angel - always freely accepted - is most thankless.

 ► He leaves the peace of heaven for a vibratory level that is almost unbearable for him.

 - Today it is good to be here.
(says the Angel through Hanna's mouth, which he lights up with a radiant smile)

 I often felt how difficult it was for my Master to come down and stay in our overly dense atmosphere. Today my joy makes things easier.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « We experience a kind of pain when we approach the earth psychically. We have the impression of entering a stifling darkness. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

 ► They do not have the right to intervene in our life, in our place.

 « God gave us free will and the angels will not infringe it. »
[Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']

 « One of the pains we are not spared is that we see your imperfections, and we are helpless. Imagine looking at me through a glass cage and hearing me lying or cheating. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 ► They have no recognition,
  their action should not even be suspected.

 « During eighty years of earthly life, I was going to have to accompany and help, from the invisible, the “living” with suicidal ideas.
 I decided to accomplish this last step with all the love of which I felt capable. I thought I knew everything about helping others without realizing that in my pride as a rescuer
(Steve was a firefighter) , I forgot the main thing: (as a guardian angel, I had to) accept that the other does not hear us, without feeling helpless. Detach yourself from any idea of ​​failure and success…. »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

 ► Their inspirations are rarely followed, and sometimes they suffer from it.

Following a hurtful reflection from the medium's mother:

 « I saw Mom's guardian angel standing behind her, in tears; some fell on his head. »
[Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']

 « Your daughters are home. They just wanted to talk to you. You yelled at them and yelled to get out. You were in a bad mood, petty. We saw you, we watched you... »

 « If we act mean, angry, annoyed, or aggressive, those in the universe will look upon us with sad eyes. »
[ R. Altea, "Free as the Spirit" ]

 ► We only call on them for our material troubles
  while their primary mission concerns our spiritual evolution
☆

What does it mean to evolve?

The bird’s reason for being is to fly.
Man’s reason for being is to elevate his soul;
by collecting, by reflecting the Love of the Universe.
To withdraw into what you accumulate is the complete opposite.

The realization of our being

 « The purpose of our life during our passage on Earth, then after our death, in the various worlds of the beyond, is an increasingly complete realization of our being. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

« Every soul must become aware of itself little by little.

 In evolution, the mineral becomes plant, the plant becomes animal and the animal will become human. This is the great chain of life. »
(Hélène Bouvier, medium, "Mission of souls in the afterlife")

 « The important thing for you is to evolve in order to modify your vibrational state.
 The Earth is a domain that allows the soul to modify its vibrations through more or less difficult life experiences. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')

continued...
.

 « For nothing in the world would your loved ones want to go back down into matter; your souls alone form part of their bonds. So do not be surprised at our silences on what you believe to be important facts of life. »
[Paqui, "Heavenly Talks"]


Home and site MAP > Difficulties >  📃
What did I do to God to deserve this?

Life's setbacks  

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

___

The humiliations  

but an ordeal like any other

___

The "consolations"
(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)
 

___

Help and protection from Heaven  

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations | which ones to follow?  

Ask for help  

_ _

☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

___

The hope

[ Help and protection from Heaven ]

The inspirations

_ _

  « A person can resist bad impulses of the spirit, such as hitting or robbing their neighbor. Giving in to such an impulse strengthens the influence of the corresponding entity within you. On the other hand, when a spirit no longer finds a connection, it adapts and looks for another way.
 Each of you can also resist a good impulse, such as reaching out to help. But by doing this, you weaken the influence of the corresponding entity and can cut off the forces that come to your aid when everything goes wrong. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 « It is difficult to distinguish our own thoughts from those that are suggested. What characterizes the latter is, above all, spontaneity. Inspiration comes to us from spirits who influence us for good or ill, but it is more often from those who wish us well, whose advice we too often fail to follow. This applies to all the circumstances of life and the decisions we must make. In this respect, we can say that everyone is a medium, for there is no one who does not have protective and familiar spirits who make every effort to suggest helpful thoughts.
 If we were deeply aware of this truth, we would more often turn to the inspiration of our guardian angel when we don't know what to say or do. Let us therefore invoke them with fervor and confidence when necessary, and we will most often be amazed by the ideas that arise as if by magic. If no idea comes, it is because we need to wait. »
[Allan Kardec]

 « (...) As he seemed to doubt my words and wanted to continue picking a quarrel with me, I kept quiet for a while and asked Marie to help me. I then heard myself replying to him.... »
( Mother Teresa )

 We get it all the time

Using the intelligence that God has given us to solicit, collect and use inspirations, that is called genius.

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 « I am just a little woman, placed a little better than the rest of you. I can, therefore, try to ensure that the consequences of your clumsiness or mistakes are limited. But more generally, my help consists of inspiring the right decisions. That is always within my reach and depends on me alone.
 You don't necessarily perceive the advice I'm whispering to you, but it enters your subconscious.

 Signs are an exceptional favor granted to me. »
 (Philippe Ragueneau, a message from his deceased wife)

 « If only these poor humans would give themselves time to think, time to observe, they would feel all the vibrations we emit. »
(A. Ray-Wendling, "A Sun Too Late")📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Ray-Wendling on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH

- Why don't people hear angels like me?

 « We whisper things in their ears, but sometimes it's very hard to get them to listen.
 People hear, but most often they think it's just a silly thought and don't do what we ask them to do. »
[Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']

 « Be careful not to harden your mind or heart, or you might miss valuable clues. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 « God always finds a human mouth if he has something to communicate to us. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

 It is still necessary to get "in tune with Heaven"

 « The needy side of your lives, constantly in search of material profits or human advantages, alters the supersensitive state one must be in to receive the light from the beyond. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « The help that angels can provide is always proportional to our ability to listen. If we are driven by the desire to grow, they will help us. They are simply waiting for us to stop, to ask for directions and to listen. »
(Karen Goldman, 'The Book of Angels')   magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Karen Goldman on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE or LIFE

 « How can I advise you? You seem to have taken a path in life that is outside of my teachings. Without God's watchful eye, without grace, you can do nothing; you are prey to evil forces. They surround and encircle you. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « We are calling you to true life on earth, but your thoughts are drifting away from us, to secondary and temporal concerns. Our effort can do nothing against your lukewarmness. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

 « I would like to help you, but often I can only watch.
 We have few means to guide people, and our power is exercised only over those who are magnetized, that is, those who are connected. We are powerless over those who do not possess this sacred element.
 And I cannot spare you the shocks from those who are not connected. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 ...and follow them

 « When angels prompt you to do something, like smile at someone or tell someone they are doing a good job—even if it seems unimportant at the time—you should do it! Seemingly inconsequential things can turn out to be vital in the higher order of things. »
[Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']


Home and site MAP > Difficulties >  📃
What did I do to God to deserve this?

Life's setbacks  

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

___

The humiliations  

but an ordeal like any other

___

The "consolations"
(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)
 

___

Help and protection from Heaven  

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations | which ones to follow?

Ask for help  

_ _

☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

___

The hope

[ Inspiration ]

Which to follow?

Consult our conscience, our feelings
The first hunch
Elevate your spirit
And discern the intuitions
Write down inspirations and your questions
Unconscious influences
Ask a question
...remain cautious


- What should we do in uncertainty?
 « Invoke your good Spirit, or pray to our master, God, that he send you one of his messengers, one of us. »
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

 Consult our conscience, our feelings

 « The answer to your questions is hidden deep within you. If your heart is ready to receive it, it will emerge on your lips by itself. »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Terre d'émeraude')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

 « It is up to our judgment to discern the good from the bad inspirations. »
[Allan Kardec]

 - But how to recognize if a message comes from my soul?

 « By the positive emotion that emerges from this thought. »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

 « If, at the thought of doing something, you experience joy, it is a directive from God and the angels. »
[Doreen Virtue, "Communicating with Angels"]

 « When there is a conflict between two duties, it is the 'still, small voice' within you which must be the supreme arbiter. »
(Gandhi)📗

 The first hunch

 « Sometimes when faced with a situation, you just won't know what to do. Trust your first impulse, before your thoughts get in the way and kill the idea. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 IT'S ALWAYS THE FIRST FEELING THAT IS RIGHT.
 The second is already reflection.
 Always listen to your first feeling.

 Human instinct has been distorted by knowledge.
 Put your mind aside!
 It is your first servant,
  but you are its master!

 The mind stops, out of breath, where faith begins.
 It can never reach it.
 The mental cannot rise to Heaven,
 because it is of this world.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « Being receptive is not a passive act. You must make the effort to remain yourself, not to exceed your receptive spontaneity, the very first state of your own being. Do not let yourself get caught up in reflection, do not let your first, intuitive contact with your deep being slip away. »
[ Michèle Decker, "Life on the Other Side" ]

 « If we knew how to listen with our heart (for that, we must be internally at peace and not lie to ourselves), we would know that the first idea we have of a being, of a thing, or of an event, is almost always the right idea. If we listen to our heart, we are rarely wrong.
 You have to know how to listen to your “inner voice”. We need to be mentally available to tune into the true self. »
(Message collected by Daniel Robin, 'Death and beyond')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Daniel Robin on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH

 « In each of your difficult times, your guides are there. The chosen solution will be up to you. Ours is always involved in your first thought.

 (...) Sometimes we want to send you an idea or a question. A medium easily captures our thoughts when we want to convey an idea or a question. But ordinary mortals must know that our thoughts are the first that they perceive. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')   magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Rosine Terral-Meyer
on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH

 « The mystery of the exchange with the invisible can be summed up in a few words: being able to receive, to open your inner being. Being receptive is not a passive act. Work is needed. A work of a singular kind since it consists in making the effort to remain oneself, not to exceed one's receptive spontaneity. Do not let yourself be drawn into reflection, do not let slip the first, intuitive contact with your deep being. »
[ Michèle Decker, "Life on the Other Side" ]

 « Encourage your children to trust their first impression, as well as the first information they receive. Otherwise, they risk distorting the latter by mixing in preconceptions.

 (...) To grant or not our confidence in the newcomer, we rely as a rule on our first impression. She is always the fairest. So follow your instincts. »
(Allison Dubois (medium))📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Allison Dubois on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH

 Elevate your spirit

 « We are sent to you with the mission to open your eyes; but how difficult it is! And how few of you understand! Fortunately we can act even without your mental assent.
 We can act on the unbelievers; unfortunately evil spirits can also.

 If you only knew how difficult it is for us to make ourselves understood in a language that is still beyond you… We speak such a different language that we remain almost discouraged when we have to instruct you. We come to you, receive us! Open your hearts! Be confident ! It is so painful for us to come up against your indifference, your scepticism. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

 And discern the intuitions

 « Intuition is like a distant sound that you think you've heard, without being sure.
 Pay attention to every premonition. Then act without letting your mind (the mental) lead you astray, and without letting fear turn you away. Intuition does not reside in the mind. Intuition is the ear of the soul. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

  You will receive the answers to your questions.
  Imagine a white sheet:
  the answers will be written on it.
  It is the intensity of your questions that will bring them to life.

  To a real question comes the answer.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « How hard you are to understand, blind and deaf to what is not thunderous, immediately evocative of the expected meaning! If you knew how to listen to your life, how much easier your lives would be! So many tenuous signs mark the path.

 This voice so fine, almost inaudible, is the breeze of your conscience. In the opacity of your miseries, in the darkness of the fiercest depression, you can find this tender sweetness that whispers to you:

"Trust me! You are not alone." »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

 « I keep sending My messages to you, but they are not heard or misunderstood.

 My most powerful messenger is experience. And even this one you ignore. Especially this one, you ignore it. Your world would not be here if you had listened to your experience. And for that, you continue to relive it, repeatedly. My messages come in a thousand forms, at a thousand times. If you really listen, you can't miss them.

 When you really hear them, you can't ignore them. Our communication will then become serious. In the past you were content to speak to Me, to implore Me. If you know how to listen – and wait – you will have answers. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 - How to develop intuition?

 « Trust again and again more and more in what comes from the depths of you.
 Whenever a question arises, interrogate your mental self, and get the answer, yes or no. Trust this answer. Don't act immediately, but as you pray and meditate, look inside yourself and ask whether it's yes or no. The answer comes as the intuition develops.
 Keep the body, the spirit, the soul, connected to the spheres of celestial energies, rather than to earthly forces. »
[a reading by Edgar Cayce]

In other words, if you are too "caught in the material", you will not be able to receive or especially interpret an intuition.

 Write down inspirations and your questions

 « Don't hesitate to jot down a thought. »
[ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]

 « If you feel stuck at any time in your life, write on a piece of paper a prayer for help to the angels, and slip it under your pillow. Reread it mentally before going to sleep. »
[Doreen Virtue, "Communicating with Angels"]

And if a question comes to us, we mustn't dismiss it by immediately telling ourselves, 'That's just the way it is.' Because the question may have been inspired.

 ☞ Sleep-wake phase

 Unconscious influences

 « The influence we exert on the living is immense; most of the time you aren't aware of it. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

 « A person who knew Albert Einstein well enough to be confided in told me that his famous formula E = mc2 had been revealed to him during a meditation. »
(Jeanne Guesné, 'The Consciousness of Being')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Jeanne Guesné on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH

 « (...) It is most of the time thanks to these dazzling intuitions that you change your mind and that you escape some trouble. Guides (or deceased loved ones) have priority in using this channel. We all feel intense joy when intuition is followed. »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

 « Spirits have always exercised their salutary or pernicious influence on humanity. The mediumistic faculty is for them only a means of manifesting themselves, they do it in a thousand other ways. This influence is constant, and those who do not concern themselves with it or hardly believe in it, are exposed to it like the others. »
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

 Ask a question

 « If you feel stuck at any point in your life, write a prayer for help to the angels on a piece of paper and slip it under your pillow. Read it over mentally before going to sleep. »
[Doreen Virtue, "Communicating with Angels"]

 Stay careful

 « It's important to remember that the intensity of impulses from the spiritual world is inversely proportional to the level they originate from. A higher entity will emit subtle impulses, while a lower entity will emit strong ones. Keep your heart open to silent calls.

 Keep your heart open to silent calls. »
[ "To those who seek" ]


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What did I do to God to deserve this?

Life's setbacks  

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

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The humiliations  

but an ordeal like any other

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The "consolations"
(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)
 

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Help and protection from Heaven  

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations | which ones to follow?  

Ask for help

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☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

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The hope


«From the depths of your distress, seek me,
call me. I am not far from you. »

[ "To those who seek" ]

[ Help and protection from Heaven ]

Ask for help

What does prayer consist of?
When and how to pray?
The power of prayer
Interfere with Fate

 What does prayer consist of?

«Prayer is a bridge thrown over the abyss. »
(Alexis Carrel, Nobel Prize in Physiology and Surgery)

Prayer is neither a recitation nor an attitude that will win us favor and consideration from Heaven.
It is an act; that involves us, commits us.
A thoughtful intention addressed to God☆ It doesn't matter what name you give it. Prayers addressed to Him are first and immediately heard by the loving spirits who accompany us..
We can thank, ask, but also protest, and even insult Him
☆ Excerpt from the page: "You who reject God" :

  « Many of those who refute God, who feel the inhuman side of certain natural mechanisms, many of those in their revolt, are closer to us than certain blind believers. These sincere men have faith, but they don't know it. »
[ "To those who seek" ]
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If God exists, He must suffer to see those who, faced with the misfortune of a neighbor, thank Him for having spared them.

If God exists, He has nothing to do with those who love Him from the outset, without asking questions, out of fear or interest.

If God exists, He doesn't care about sheep bleating His praises.

You have to rebel against the suffering of others. We must be indignant at the death of a child.

God has planted the man on his two legs and encourages him to come and call on Him.

 "Stand on your feet, he said to Ezekiel, and I will talk to you. »
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 « Man must choose God. Ready-made solutions only serve to give a clear conscience to those who like to sleep and live in peace; so as not to hunt down the truth, one pretends to have found it. Now, they say to Kotzk, the revelation itself, which has become habit and facade, can only appear suspect. »
[Elie Wiesel, 'Hasidic Celebration']

 « At the beginning of my life I did not believe in God or in prayer. »
(Gandhi)📗

. God can understand everything, support everything, except our indifference.
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« Everything happens through prayer. Whether you pray consciously or not, your desires —good or bad— act like prayers and attract corresponding good or bad powers in response. »
[ Franchezzo Farnèze & Pierre Jovanovic "The explorer of the beyond" ]

 « Prayer is creative, it has the strength of the energy that you have transmitted to it. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')   magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Rosine Terral-Meyer
on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH

 « In the evening, before going to sleep, ask for a helping hand: '  I would like to find a solution to such a problem. How can I do? I will be attentive to all the signs and indications that providence will send me to help me to find an answer." »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 ☞  The wake-sleep moment

 « The man of flesh can, through the intermediary of the Spirit, come into contact with the cosmos.

 (...) When you pray, pray as high as you can reach. Prayer is active thought. Aim high, very high, with all the strength of your sincerity and conviction. You will compel the intermediate layers of the Spirit to rise as well, to carry your thought.
 This prayer involves a purification of your being. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 « A man who prays is a lit candle. Prayer connects man to God. »

[ Maguy Lebrun ]

 « Prayer is not a recitation but a conversation with the beyond. But all positive acts are prayers, your life is prayer. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')   magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Rosine Terral-Meyer
on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH

- What is prayer?

 « To pray to God is to think of Him; it's to come closer to Him, to put yourself in communication with Him. Through prayer, you can ask for things or give thanks.

 He who prays is stronger against the temptations of evil, God sends him good Spirits to assist him. It is a help that is never refused when sincerely asked for.

 Good deeds are the best of prayers, because deeds speak louder than words. »
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

 « I know that every act is prayer if it is self-sacrifice. »
[ Saint-Exupéry ]

 When and how to pray?

 « It is important to remember that when faced with evil in one's life, a prayer recited by anyone, regardless of creed, has a major impact. »
[Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']

 « Don't just invoke God, you must also evoke Him, meaning you must put yourself in His presence. In your prayers, you often seem to be speaking into a void, as if you were talking to someone without looking at them. When you pray to God, your words don't cross an infinite space; you are before Him. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

 « Your prayer carries within it the reflection of what you are. Doors will only open if you are worthy. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 « More than ready-made prayers, it is those that come out of your heart, without preparation, that do us the most good. Don't forget to pray also for those who are in the dark, they really need it. »
["Karine after life"]

 « Pray for me », a Hasid☆Pious man who takes a rabbi as his master told him. Things are bad, I need help, intercede on my behalf.
 And the Rebbe, looking at him harshly: "Are you too sick to say your own prayers?"
  - I do not know how.
  - What ? You do not know ? This is your real problem! And he dismissed him.
[Elie Wiesel, 'Hasidic Celebration']

 « No reason to pray is too small, no prayer is too short. One can pray anywhere, in the crowd or alone. Sometimes we pray unconsciously, especially when we think of a sick loved one or a friend in difficulty. When a prayer comes from the depths of our being, it is incredibly powerful. »
[Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']

 The power of prayer

 « A tear or a prayer can alter the course of events. »
[Elie Wiesel, 'Hasidic Celebration']

 « I saw the globe spinning in space. A number of beams, like those of a lighthouse, sprang from it. Some, very powerful, pierced the sky, others seemed to come from a small flashlight, and a few were just simple sparks. To my immense surprise, I was told that they represented the prayers of earthlings.
 We can all raise our soul to the level of the Lord through prayer.
 Once we have made a wish, we should not show impatience, but put our trust in God to fulfill it.

 Our field of intervention is immense. Our potential for helping our family, friends, and neighbors is much more significant than we imagine. »
[Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"]

  The request of one who does not ask for themselves
  reaches Heaven and calls it down.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « For your celestial friends to be able to help you, you must have confidence in them. Our presence close to you is real. A call is enough to transport us immediately to the suffering soul. Alas, when your prayers are not answered according to your human desires, you doubt, and you move away from us! »
[Paqui, "Heavenly Talks"]

 Interfere with Fate

 « Pray without asking, pray without claiming. Accept your burden, as you accept your joy. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « Do not oppose your will to personal and momentary interests to your destiny to luminous ends. Why try to go against the great Plan of Evolution that you subscribed☆ Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

 Decision, life plan

- How and when are the spiritual goals that we must achieve defined?

 « You all live a more or less long period of wandering in the spiritual world between two incarnations. It is relative to your efforts to progress. When your degree of evolution allows it, you choose the outline of your next life on earth, with the approval of your guides. A life plan is established, with the choice of your family and its social environment, your professional, sentimental, friendly, material and financial lines, as well as your health.

 Part of the life experiences are determined in advance according to your achievements or weaknesses of past lives. They will become unmissable events, highlighting the main weaknesses to be eliminated. Nevertheless, the majority of your experiences will reveal themselves through the free choice of your attitudes and behavior. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

following...
to when you came into this world? »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Par l’esprit du Soleil')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

 « One should never ask God for the fulfillment of material, selfish desires. You risk falling into a trap. »
(A low level prayer is picked up by low level spirits)
[ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]

 « God is all goodness but He cannot grant what is contrary to the soul who implores Him. Be less complicated, ask less from life, and you will find yourself much richer—rich in true blessings, the first of which is peace of mind. »

[Paqui, "Heavenly Talks"]

 « We rush psychically whenever your thoughts take the form of a prayer.

 However, you might say, God does not answer all prayers.

 A mother does not grant all the requests of the children she loves, in their interest. This is the simplest and most truthful explanation. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

- What about my prayers?

 « You won't get what you ask for and you won't get anything you want because the act of asking is an affirmation of lack.

 The query itself is not necessary.

 God remains ready to help you live your life, but not in the way you might expect. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 - But if everything seems determined, then why do you pray

 « Because we can correct everything, and modify everything as we go along. You can fix everything, too. You have to ask God because you always get what you need, but not always what you want. »

[ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

 « I focused all my thoughts so that my son received the energy necessary to overcome the disease. Yet I did not succumb to the temptation to pray to God to leave me the child. "Things are never bad on their own, it all depends on how you think about it " said Epictetus. From my personal point of view, it would have been a disaster to lose the child. But I should not ask subjective and personal things from the highest power, from the Creator, because He knew what was right and why. And the child? For him too, the best thing was for the divine will to be done, whatever it was. I remained with my little boy in my arms, my little human-maternal "I" trembling for the life of the child.

 (...) Will my son come out alive? (city ​​seat in Budapest) Will we meet again in this life? It's a very big question mark… However, that shouldn't make me suffer. Of this young man whom, to enable him to be reincarnated, I carried in my heart and who is now my son and I love in God!

 (…) Everything passes except true love. We can't lose each other! We will all, at one time or another, have to leave the body. In a hundred years it won't matter who left earlier or later.

 (…) I was overwhelmed with gratitude. In this case, my desire and God's will had been identical: He had returned my child to me. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]


Home and site MAP > Difficulties >  📃
What did I do to God to deserve this?

Life's setbacks  

These confusing contingencies

Failures, shocks, unfairness

___

The humiliations  

but an ordeal like any other

___

The "consolations"
(cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, etc.)
 

___

Help and protection from Heaven  

Who are those who protect us?

Inspirations ...which ones to follow?  

Ask for help  

_ _

☞ What to do in the face of suffering?

___
The hope


«The darkest hours precede dawn. »
[ Franchezzo Farnèze & Pierre Jovanovic
"The explorer of the beyond" ]

The hope

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  « There is a reason to live. There is hope in all circumstances. »
[Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']

 « Have a clear look and kind words, and everything will be fine. »
( J.-M. Vianney, the Curé of Ars )

 « Pick up the modest sweets of the earth with gratitude: live as you should live during your exile (for the soul, the earth is an exile) . It must serve to teach you effort and perseverance, which are the basis of all evolution. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]